How to forget your boyfriend..
Posted: Tuesday, December 13, 2005
by cenk
MyBestDate
Sometimes you have times when you think that you’re having the worst time of your life. Nothing goes well with your boyfriend. He doesn’t understand you, he doesn’t call you as much as he did before. He doesn’t share your enthusiasm while you’re talking to him. He often comes late to your rendez-vous. He even forgets to do the things you have decided to do before. He looks careless, and the worst, a bit bored from the relationship.
If you think that your efforts are hopeless, then let him go. May be this is all because that he’s finished with the relationship in his mind, or may be the loving feelings have faden away. You don’t have any time to lose for anyone including him. Although it’s hard to bare a separation sometimes, and it may look like the world has come to an end, you must get through this period with as less damage as possible.
I cannot say stop thinking about him and probably you won’t stop thinking about him for a while, anyway. Your hand will go to the the phone each and everyday and you cannot be able to stop thinking of calling him. You’ll want to hear his voice especially the times you feel yourself lonely. That’s perfectly normal but unfortunately it’s a waste of your time from your precious, but short life. So what you must do to get over your past relationships?
- Open a brand new page in your life.
- Remember all the endings are like a closing door which is opening a new window to your beginnings.
- Concentrate on yourself. Never stay at home listening to romantic songs that reminds you of him.
- Try not to visit the places that you used to go together.
- Get rid of the photos, and delete his number from your mobile. That will help you stay away from the thought of calling him.
- Meet new people. Make new friends.
- Try to date with new guys frequently, but avoid going out with people that you don’t really like because that will remind you how good you were with your ex.
- Find yourself new hobbies that can keep you occupied and busy.
- Devote yourself to your work.
- Let the time sweep away those memories and feelings from your heart.
You must know in your life, there’s only one person, you can control, yourself. You cannot control anyone other than yourself and sometimes things happen as it shouldnt happen. Some happenings occur to put us to advantage and sometimes we’ll discover later in our lives. All you have to do is to decide what to do with the time thats given to you. Let go of your life or grab hold of it.
Remember my friend, yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery. You and only you can change it to your favour.
Cenk Butunley is the founder of MyBestDate, an Online Dating Service company serving internationally. He has specialized in software engineering since 1998, including three years as a Senior Developer for Bromcom Computers Plc., a software publishing company.
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More commentsSarah as we in my country say ( who's sold us we will sell him even if he is a precious)if he loved you he will except your past as your present so don't be sorry for loosen him , you will find abetter man
very heplful.... maybe by reading this now i could try to forget him...
ALL U SAID IS RIGHT...but what should we do to live...how to kill our feelings...he is rejects me daily but i know he loves me...how can we hate and love the same person at same time...
i want a true suggestion...i believe my boyfriend is a lil psycho...he lead a life with lot of gals..and now he kant trust anygal ...not me even..he say he love me but we kant live together because he dunt trust me...i love him..am ready to live with all his bad habits but he dunt...but i know he loves me...am in a biggest confusion..what should i do..he rejects me everyday...and our age diffrenec is 14 years..am 24 and he is 37....i guess he is a lil complexed...am really gonna be mad...
what if your boyfriend adores you and you are the one who feels bored from this relation? i have this feeling and it tortures me a lot, i feel that i should devote myself to him because he deserves the best of the best, but innerly he is not the one who i dream of, so what can i do?
ilove him so much, but ilove also my self..iam tried of loving him,waiting to things goes back to normal again, but I cant stop my self thinkin of him and still loving him.understand its hard to forget,really hard but see the things that would make you forget it i.e your family members do not listen to the songs which makes you remind that person
get hang with your friends
nowadays you can nor find a boy being loyal nor girls both are here just for fun,becoz i have badly experienced it .
i still love him even we broke up 2 years ago but i couldnt stop my self thinking of him and loving him, i feel like if i were killing my self by my own hand
Okay Well me And Ma Bf Were Dating For A Year Nd 4 Days.. But Now i Broke Up Wid Him Nd He Hasnt Try To Talk Tome! i Tryed to Talk To Him He Said To Leave Him Alone! im Tryeed To talk To Him But He Refuses To Lising ! ima Try To Just Start A New Page in My Life!:)
i've been with my boyfriend for over 3years. i love him to death, like seriously ill kill muyself without him, but he makes me cry a lot, he doesnt appreciate things, and we have trouble with both of us being real jelaous, and honestly, i feel he does love me, but i think he's just tierd of the relationship, and may want to move on But i can't let go of him, i cant live without him? but in the other hand im tierd of getting hurt so much, and scared ill never find some1={
ma guy is cheating on me wat should i do
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